When I was asked to introduce and interview the new host for Blogger's Choice here on Active Rain, I was quite honored. When I found out who I'd be interviewing, I was thrilled. Few ooze class and professionalism more than the following person. Without further ado (nice choice in wording Mr. Sardi:-) ... I give you ...
Lola Audu!
*Did Active-Rain find you or you, it? I would also love to hear your experiences, trials, & tribulations while you've been here!*
'Stumbling upon' would be the most appropriate way to describe how I started blogging on Active Rain. I had been Blogging on Real Town Blogs for approximately a month and a half prior to joining AR. I don't know how I found the site, but for some reason I decided to sign up. At that time, I had a butterfly that was my avatar. I was very skeptical of being online... I didn't loose the butterfly avatar for several months, but this was the post where 'the first sighting of Lola emerged."
The Parable...The Acorn & The Butterfly.
The most significant challenge when I first came was just being overwhelmed by the incredible amount of talent and information. I had never had the exposure to so much knowledge about real estate and technology. It was in a sense, all consuming. Finding balance personally and professionally continues to be something I work on everyday.

*Most who read you realize what a very astute writer you are, how'd you come about learning how to write? Who are some of your favorites, whether on AR or the New York Times Best Seller List:-)
Astute...now, that's a word that I need to look up. Excuse me for a moment...
According to the Free Dictionary online, it means "Having or showing shrewdness and discernment, especially with respect to one's own concerns."
Hmm...well, I'd agree with discernment, but I had never thought of myself as shrewd. I'm not quite that calculating. But, I would say that over time, I have developed about 3 different audiences which I think about when I'm writing. (my clients, other agents/brokers, those I'd like to inspire...have I covered the world yet?)
On how I learned to write. Well, it's funny but creative writing was something I liked doing at school, but didn't think I was very good at it. Getting all the syntax and grammer right always seemed to get in the way of saying what I intended. I have written outlines for courses that I've taught, but would NEVER have imagined that I'd be writing over 400 articles from scratch. Writing for me is an outward flow of my thinking. It's a conversation that's occuring with my fingers rather than my mouth...
I like good writing whenever I find it. Some of my favorite writers here on Active Rain for prose are: Broker Bryant, Elizabeth Nieves, Andrew Lenza, Linda Davis, Gary Bolen, Jason Sardi, TLW aka The Lovely Wife, Geno Petro, Elizabeth Weintraub & Chris Elizabeth Griffith. Then there are so many whom I admire for their tech ability, Jeff Turner & Missy Caulk come to mind and others for their community Spirit, such as Midori Miller, Sally Cheeseman, Kathy McGraw & janeAnne Narrin.
Favorite Blogger outside the "Rain"...Seth Godin
Books I'm currently enjoying...just fininished "An Unaccostomed Earth" by Indian author Jhumpa Lahiri...breathtaking prose...just beautiful.
Boy, Jason...you will have to condense this interview big time...2 Questions and we've already covered enough material for 2 blog posts. :)
(Not to worry Lola, I may actually earn my 200 points today. Besides, you get mad props for mentioning little old me amongst your favorite Bloggers. This is good reminder folks. It's never a bad idea to suck up to the interviewer!)
*Do you have a core philosophy about Blogging? What are some of your favorite posts that you have written?*
Core Blogging Philosophy...Write from the heart...the blog is done when it resonates there. Favorite posts... This is hard. I write for business and for inspiration. I'd choose the following from Inspiration... What I Learned from the post Sarah Cooper told me NOT to read... What I learned from the post Sarah Cooper told me NOT to read. and from Business... The New Wild West of Real Estate...( A 6 part series on Short Sales & Foreclosures) Part 1 Link: The New Wild West of Real Estate...Negotiating a Short Sale! (Part 1) The series that I've enjoyed doing the most is "What It Means..." This series involves looking at things that have had a profound impact in my life.
*If AR entered a show-down with some of the other High-Octane Real Estate Blog Sites and you were in charge to hire 5 Bloggers to represent AR, who would they be and why?*
-Lenn Harley...writes some of the best real estate stuff out there. Her Hard Core Real Estate posts could be a text book! And she is remarkably productive!
-Jeff Turner...again prolific...I think of Jeff as high tech with a heart. Good blogger, but always on the look-out for the next best thing and willing to share his finds everywhere...Serious, he's a face I expect to find on any site worth joining.
-Jeff Dowler...Excellence in local blogging. Interesting & indepth analysis of the local scene in southern California, but also writes insightful articles about real estate and life.
-Craig Shiller...brilliant writer, brings insight and creativity to the art of staging and doing it right.
-Janet Gauilault...one of the best writers that I've read in the mortgage industry. She knows her stuff and can explain it to the rest of us. As you can see, my 5 choices reflect an emphasis on real estate and financing.
The question was about a High-Octane Real Estate Site. While I love non real estate related blogs and write them myself, I think that a real estate networks greatest cache is in making real estate interesting, informative and relevant.
*Most folks remember their first transaction. Sometimes it is a nightmare, sometimes it goes smooth. Do you recall your first closed transaction in Real Estate? Can you summarize that transaction?*
Yes, I remember vividly my first transaction. I had asked some friends if I could "practise" my listing presentation on them. They agreed. At the end of the presentation, they said, "Where should we sign?" I thought they were kidding. I was totally unprepared for my first listing and had to scramble to find someone who knew how to fill out the paperwork. They ended up selling their house and buying another one within 4 months.
*The idea behind 'Blogger's Choice' is a great one. Got any plans in store as the New Host?
Blogger's Choice evolved out of observing some of the discontent expressed about Featured Posts. The truth was that there were some excellent posts that were being missed for a variety of reasons. I thought that it would be great to give bloggers the opportunity to speak for themselves about the content which they wrote and to have the entire focus of the group be driven by contributing members. That was the idea behind having a Spotlight in which one member could choose posts they liked. The other important aspect of the group was to get to know people better...thus the idea of introducing the host with a separate post. It's an Open Source Group, so we're open to ideas and ways to improve. Blogger's Choice belongs totally to the members. I was simply a catalyst.
*Do you recall who you first 'Subscribed To' on AR? Are they still active here?*
I have absolutely NO recollection of who I subscribed to First on AR. And...that is NOT a politically astute answer. :)
*Outside of Real Estate, what are some of your interests? What is Lola doing at 9:00 on a Saturday Night?*
Outside of Real Estate, I enjoy spending time with my family and friends. I like a good movie and trying different restaurants. We also do a fair amount of entertaining. Saturday night often finds me online finishing a blog post before mid-night. Then I'm totally disconnected from anything electronic until sometime on Monday. This is when I catch up on my TV viewing and books that are piling up by my bedside table.
*There's got to be something in life you haven't done but have wanted to do? What might that be and what the heck are you waiting for?*
Now, this is absolutely hands down the best question of this interview. There's a lot of stuff that I'm working on or working through. We'll leave it at that...
*How did you generate your business when first starting out? Does it differ from now? What would you say to newer agents and even those who now may be struggling, to let them know how to generate more leads and business?*
When I first started my real estate career, I had a trainer who told me I was sitting on a gold mine. He was referring to my sphere of influence. It took me awhile to understand what he meant, but he was right. Relationships have always been the center of my life. Starting with my relationship to God, my family and friends, this thread weaves itself through my business. I care about people and I care about trying to determine what works for them. I'm intrigued by the WHY behind the transaction. My advice to newer agents would be to spend your time wisely...avidly seek a good mentor, respect their advice, time and attention and then DO what they tell you to do. There's a reason why it works!
*Can I have an autographed business card?*
Are you serious? Nobody has ever asked for my autograph. LOL Thanks Jason.
No, thank you Lola. I'm still waiting for that autograph though;-)


seriously a class within an interview by someone very classy, thanks to both of you for raise the bar the way you do
Eric Reid, Managing Broker Renaissance Realty Group Inc. Short Sale Certified Graduate Harris Real Estate University Office: 404-921-2067 x 102 Fax: 770-513-4443 Search All Georgia Homes for Sale at www.GeorgiaOnlineHomes.com
Lola, you rock !
Great interview Jason.
Me techy? Everything I know I learned here. And that is the truth.
Lola is phenomenal....I've said that before. I love her passion, but most of all, the depth that she goes into when she writes. Then again, Sardi, you're pretty impressive yourself!
Hope all is well in your worlds!
Eric - Thank you sir.
Missy - Ironic Missy, a lot of what I learn here is from you:-)
Bill - Yes she is. Thanks man, all is well in Allentown. Hope you are doing good yourself.
Wow...now that was a great interview! Lola is such an outstanding person and I love her writing, her wit, her spirit and her motivation! Thanks lil bro...and interview well appreciated!
Thanks Sis, it was quite the honor even being asked to do it!
WOW awesome interview and thanks Jason you did an excellent job! Lola is one of my favorites on the rain and I have learned so much from watching her! She's everywhere and darn good at it too! Thanks again..Jason Sardi Reporting live! :)
p.s. I love her choices for the blogger showdown
Really well done Jason. Lola is an incredible person. I want to grow up to be just like her. Oops! I forgot I'm much older than Lola.....so let's see...I wish I would have grown up to be like Lola. Thanks for taking the time to put this together and thank you Lola for sharing with us.
Jason - Really intertaining interview - the wonderful personalities of both the interviewer and interviewee came right across. Thanks, enjoyed it!
Thanks Midori! Bottom line on this, I wanted this to showcase a brief but broad spectrum of Lola. She didn't disappoint at all.
Bryant - Thanks, she is quite the person. At least I can say I want to grow up and be like her:-)
Virginia - Indeed. Lola's a class act. It was a pleasure and honor to be able read her responses to off the cuff questions I wanted to ask her.
Nice interview bud...now you have a second calling?
Jason,
Great interview...great interviewee...great interviewer...great questions...great answers...!!! Great Post!!! :) Thanks, Fran
Jason ~ I just had to write you, I noticed that almost every where I posted or read today, YOU were right there too! I just thought it was kind of funny that we are running in the same circles!! I noticed you are from PA, I grew up in Pa. just outside the city of Philadelphia. It's a small world afterall!
Neal - Doubt it, unless I can have a spot on HBO. Then, we are talking!
Fran - Great comment my friend, copy and paste that comment to all my posts and I'll be a 'Fran Fan' Forever!!
Vickie - I'm about an hour and a half away from Philly! It seems we are running in the same circles, careful of that ... you don't want a bad rap:-)
Jason, a great idea for blogs here on AR, and a great interview as well...Did you make up the questions, or is there some interview software we can use for that??He hhe He He..
But seriously I think your choice of a quality subject makes your interview much more interesting... Is there a button here to push to give Kudos to Lola??
Great job on the interview Jason!
Jason~ I forgot to say that you did a great job with the interviewing of Lola. She is really a charming, sweet and intelligent person. You aren't so bad yourself, either!
Good interview Jason. Good answers Lola. Of course I knew it would be good, since I like both of your stuff...
Jason - you did a great job with the interview. And you have to admit, it's a much easier job when your 'target' is someone that is so wonderfully genuine. Lola is truly an inspiration to many, as are you, my friend. You both did a great job!
Jason, I'm just opening up your blog post & remembering again how fun this interview was to do! Your questions were great and some of them made me really think. It's early Monday morning & I'm preparing to start my day. What a wonderful wake up call this was. :) Have an awe inspiring day & however that looks & feels for you, know that you've got my best wishes as a little bit of the wind behind your sails. Thanks again...
Jason, I am not going to say great job because that would not say enough about your intuitive and original questions. They truly brought out the essence of what I wanted to know about Lola and her incredible talents. I love it when a find such meanful and special insight from two people for whom I have immense respect. Thanks!
Jason~
What an amazing story...you wrote, " At that time, I had a butterfly that was my avatar. I was very skeptical of being online... I didn't loose the butterfly avatar for several months, but this was the post where 'the first sighting of Lola emerged." The Parable...The Acorn & The Butterfly.
And what an amazing presentation ...Lola is a bright light here at AR, and you proved that .
Thank you!
Jason, Great interview! And also very interesting subject. This would be difficult for me to perform.
Jason- Well I think you did in fact earn your 200 Points LOL :) That comment made me laugh, as did a few others. You outdid yourself here, and of course the subject matter sure didn't hurt any. I have always admired Lola, and her writing fascinates me....I even asked her where she went to school because I didn't know half the words she uses........and that's the truth..... LOL :)
Really good job, I enjoyed this thourougly...both of you :)
Hey Jason - I LOVE this interview, and what an intriguing person to have the great pleasure of interviewing! Bet you get a few more than 200 points for this one!
Lola - I loved reading this interview and learning a little more about you - thanks for sharing.
I'm going to have to start paying a little more attention to these interviews - this was great!
Ann
Mike - Yes there is. It's the little button above her face on her blog:-)
Susan - Why thank you.
Vickie - Agreed, except I'm not quite sure how charming I am.
Lane - Thanks man. Again, those are pretty good acolades in my book.
Carol - That's a fact. My first question could of been, "What's your take on air?" and Lola would have an intriguing answer I'm sure.
Lola - Thank you, it was my pleasure.
Diane - As always, that means a lot.
Jane Anne - She certainly is, thank you.
Marc - Well buck up amigo, I'm interviewing you next:-)
Kathy - So you think Lola is pretty astute, don't ya?:-)
Ann - I haven't looked yet, but I would say this is worthy of at least 231 1/2 points. Thanks Ann!
Jason, you are my new Barbara Walters : ) Great interview, and I love Lola here on Active Rain too. A great one to pick!
Thanks Gary, should I quit my 'Day Job'?
Hi Jason...Thank you so much for the deeper glimpse into what makes Lola tick. She is such an inspiring writer. Without a doubt one of my favortes here on the Rain.
You did a great job and as you can see, much appreciated.
Take care,
Kathleen
Jason- is that your word for the week "Astute" LOL :) I don't know if she is astute or not....but I do know that I love her writings, and her community involvement :)
Kathleen - Thank you so much, that means a lot. Lola is indeed an inspiring writer.
Kathy - Yup, that's my word for the week. Next week, it's parsimonious which will culminate in a seven word blog which sums up life itself ... courtesy of yours truly:-)
Jason- a seven word blog......I can't wait :) In the meantime enjoy this week :)
Jason, You did an awesome interview with Lola. (without further ado, very cute)
Enjoyed your questions and enjoyed the responses. Maybe you should take this show "on the road". Look forward to future interviews. Congratulations Jason and Lola.
Kathy - You do the same!
Margaret - Thanks Margaret, I'm not sure if Lola would want a road tour, but I appreciate the sentiment. Have a great week!
Well Done to both of you!
Good post dude....I've subscribed to her blog for some time now. It's a great exchange here and I definitely learned more about Lola here from these answers.
Jason, excellent ThemThem to a fine group of Active Rain Family members. Great job.
Duane
Featured Post in The ThemThem Group.
Greg - Thanks man!
Larry - When I was asked to do the interview, I was pretty sure it would turn out good no matter what questions I asked.
Duane - Thank you Sir!
Great job Jason & Lola. Fun and informative.
All the best!
Sardi, Sorry for not getting back before this, but uh yeah right!